The shadow of Congenial
Abrasive → Congenial
People choose the easier partner even when you are the better one.
Left of the triangle · Abrasive
People choose the easier partner even when you are the better one.
The Anti-Law of Coldness — Correct, and unwelcoming.
Right of the triangle · Congenial
Verdelite grown in agreeable company — of the same kind, born easy to be near.
Where the ground is uneven, I raise the low side.
How to move over
- 1Name it without shame: today you were standing on abrasive.
- 2Say the law once — The Law of Patronage — and bow to it. That bow is obeisance.
- 3Do one small thing only congenial would do, inside the next hour.
- 4Put on the robe: carry Green Tourmaline for the rest of the day as the sign you switched sides.
The switch of the whole day
- — Be warm first, capable second — both are true.
- — Give one person your courtesy in a way they will remember.
- — Let someone patronise your work by asking them to.