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Intuitiveness · Days 21–30Day 22

An OUT day · outward execution — she gives it out

Jewel of the Day

The stone she gains by living this law

Lapis Lazuli

A rock rather than a mineral — blue lazurite crowded with golden pyrite and veined with white calcite, mined at Sar-e-Sang for six thousand years and ground into ultramarine, the most costly pigment in painting. Carried for friendship, truth, honour and honest dealing between two parties.

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Celestial Law

Live this law well — daily, quietly, without applause — and it begins to work on your behalf. Everything you touch turns golden, as a queen over a kingdom that is growing.

"I am courteous becoming cordial becoming congenial. I equal, I enhance, and I equalize — and others become my outlay laid out and returned."

Intuitiveness · Day 22

The Law of the Patronage

The other side of the coin — what she lays out on others comes back enhanced

Day Twenty-Two is an OUT day. Yesterday she read the signs and kept her point; today she turns outward and meets somebody. Patronage is what a woman spends on another — her attention, her name, her custom, her backing. The Adventure CEO becomes courteous and learns to equal: to meet a person level and match what she was handed. What she has to work with is others — not a market, not an audience. Others. The Architect becomes cordial, from cor, the heart, and this is the beginning of love: warmth, not manners. Now she does more than equal — she enhances, and nothing passes through her hands the same size. What she is, in that place, is the other: the side of the coin that answers. And this is the turn of the day — you are always somebody's other, and in another woman's realm you are the others she has to work with. Understand that and nothing in the exchange is outside your control, because your half of it never was. In the Sovereign she becomes congenial, of the same kind, born agreeable, and what she does is equalize: she raises the low side, which is what a patron has always done for the one with the gift and no room. What she increases is outlay — what she lays out. Patronage costs. The old cultures were rough in their own way, and out of that rough came the rough of the rough: raw material that became the masterpiece because somebody paid for it.

Today's Exercise

Choose one person today and equalize — give them the room, the seat, the introduction or the hour they cannot get for themselves. Then answer every courtesy you received this week in the same measure. Then take one thing handed to you and send it back measurably better, saying nothing about it. Finally, write your outlay for the month: what you are laying out on others, and on whom, with an amount beside each.

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